2Unique Magazine's goal is to structure the focus of singles. Know that we are living in our best time for God to use us for His glory. Singles should not view singleness as a waiting room for marriage. We have this time to strengthen spiritually and personally.
These areas must be strengthened so that we are able to clearly discern the values that are most important, play a part in making us unique, whole, and complete. Singleness is the fundamental block for a human relationship.
How are you approaching relationships? What do you fear? Is it your future? Singles are yielding more and more to the pressures of society. Society conveys that you need a mate in order to feel like "you have arrived". It becomes challenging when an individual allows the eye of the world to take root in their life and become the shadow of their image.
In the Bible, Esther didn't know what her future held. God's ultimate destiny for Esther was to use her to rescue an entire nation from certain destruction. Esther had been prepared physically to become a Queen and God prepared her spiritually. Esther learned how to submit to the wisdom of a man who clearly wanted nothing but the best for her. She learned how to exert her influence. One key to accomplishing the purposes of God is knowing how and when to exert influence. She exhibited Humility, Wisdom, Compassion and Courage.
It is critical that we acknowledge our own significance and invest in ourselves. See yourself as separate, whole and unique. Identify what you think about yourself and how you think about yourself. Singles must know that you can be successful and satisfied while you wait. Are you angry, bitter or are you enjoying this particular time in your life? Tap into God's immeasurable greatness and goodness. Do not allow the enemy to off-set your site (sight).
You have the ability to control your thoughts and believe in your future, Gods plan for you WILL be fulfilled.
Know Ladies, if a man is interested. He will pursue YOU.
Know Men, if a woman has respect for herself, she will honor and respect you.
Roshunda R. Buchanan
President, 2Unique